When I was in high school, I couldn’t buy a pair of shoes until I looked at every single shoe in every single store that sold shoes in the entire mall. Why? I was crazed by the thought that I would find a better pair of shoes at another store, or the same pair of shoes at a better price someplace else. This, of … Read More Getting Married Despite the “What Ifs?”
What am I doing?, I thought to myself as I had so many times before, why am I always changing myself for men who never change their minds about me?
I think – black people specifically – would do better to stop encouraging one another to delay marriage…especially because people playing house are the problem, spreading kids, STDs and emotional wreckage around like peanut butter on a slice of bread.