Category: relationships

My Surprise 30th Birthday Party Recap!

I am amazed that this many people – most of which I see on a fairly regular basis – were able to keep this a secret!

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Getting Married Despite the “What Ifs?”

When I was in high school, I couldn’t buy a pair of shoes until I looked at every single shoe in every single store that sold shoes in the entire mall. Why? I was crazed by the thought that I would find a better pair of shoes at another store, or the same pair of shoes at a better price someplace else. This, of … Read More Getting Married Despite the “What Ifs?”

The Apology

“An apology might help, but you can change your life without one.” -Robin Quivers The heartfelt apology. The sincere “I’m sorry”. The “Darn, I screwed up but I’m hoping you’ll forgive me.” Even the casual, “About that…yeah, my bad.” Does that ever happen in real life?

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Red Toenail Polish, Pink Bedrooms and Changing Myself For A Man

What am I doing?, I thought to myself as I had so many times before, why am I always changing myself for men who never change their minds about me?

#TeamMarriage…and the Backward Society Who Is Against It

I think – black people specifically – would do better to stop encouraging one another to delay marriage…especially because people playing house are the problem, spreading kids, STDs and emotional wreckage around like peanut butter on a slice of bread.

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The Moment I Knew: A Love Story of My Own

My guard had been irrevocably shattered and I knew at that moment this was it. He was IT.